How to Find That Special Someone Offline.
In this new age of technology we literally do everything virtually, including meeting people that we want to date. It’s kinda crazy you could be scouting out your potential life partner online. It’s a little scary if you think about it but hey it’s the time we are living in.
I’m here to give you some tips on finding a genuine connection with someone out in the “Real World” lol
To be honest, I never got on a dating app and took it seriously. I signed up for a couple to see what type of people were out there but I couldn’t take dating a person seriously that I met online. Like I literally have no clue who this person is.
I’ve always liked dating people that I can get a sense of who they are based on many different factors but meeting someone in person you can read them better and get a good look at them to see if you even want to have another conversation.
I’ve always dated people that I knew of or we had mutual friends. Not on purpose, It just happened that way. I’m in a relationship with someone I actually met in Atlanta, but come to find out we grew up 10 minutes from each our entire life in Maryland and have hella mutual friends. Moral of the story, your person is out there and you don’t have to go on an app to meet anyone… you have to put yourself out there! Here are some tips for you to get yourself out there and find that special someone!
Tip # 1- Say Yes to plans even if you’re not excited about going.
I am totally that girl that feels the urge to go out during the day and as it heads towards the evening, I’m in more of a “let’s stay in” type mood. I will say though, every time I make the choice to suck it up, get cute and go out I actually have a great time. Stay open to meeting new people and having conversations, some one special may catch your attention.
Tip # 2 Get out of the house!
Yes, It is easier said than done but this is a sure way to interact with people. Instead of ordering Uber Eats for dinner or getting your groceries delivered, getting out helps you have more of a chance of meeting the person of your dreams.
Tip # 3 When you’re out at a restaurant, sit at the bar.
If your solo or with a friend, instead of grabbing a table sit at the bar and watch how many people you will meet. Restaurants aligned with your favorite type of ambiance and food may help you meet someone that enjoys the restaurant just as much as you, giving you both something in common from the jump!
Tip # 4 Become a regular at your favorite neighborhood spots
Become a regular at some of your favorite spots in the neighborhood like your favorite coffee shop, lunch spot, and/or bar. Creating relationships with the staff and owners of the places may help in meeting new people. They may introduce you to friends or other regulars that come, making the chances of meeting that special someone very high!
Tip # 5 The friend-of-a-friend setup
This is actually my favorite type of set up. This is how I got into my first relationship. A friend setting you up with a friend of theirs, acquaintance or co-worker is the best way to go because they’ve already been vetted for the job. If you have good friends any date should be a success!
Tip # 6 The best places to go to meet someone new.
An on going workout class (boxing could be sexy)
The grocery store or favorite restaurant bar
Join an alumni group from your college
Join a sports & rec sports league in your town
I hope this list helps.
All in all, If you are trying to have an authentic connection with someone do it the old school way and get out there!
xoxo